Self-awareness

The self-awareness we develop throughout life is correlated to our ability to be better selves, partners, loves, parents, friends, and community members. Self-awareness is the on ingredient we all need to prioritize throughout our healing and growing process as human-beings.

Finding Purpose and Meaning

When we arrive at a point in life where we are feeling empty and lonely, often it is due to lacking purpose and meaning in our contributions to community and society. Work plays a huge role in this and many of us feel unfulfilled from what we are doing. Finding purpose and meaning is essential to being content with the life you build.

Radical Accountability

Once you stop blaming others for your circumstances and state of being, you can take back your power to alter your life. Through radical accountability we empower ourselves to acknowledge and change behavior patterns that no longer suit the human we wish to be.

Dating and Relationships

An area that is usually critically important to us all. Are you struggling in dating or relationships? Do you want to have a healthier more fulfilling relationship? Do you want to find a conscious partner, who is also working on themselves too? This is where you start. Together we can work on building the foundation of self-awareness, so that you can begin to meet the energy of that which you seek. None of us want to die alone. Let’s build it.

Finding a sense of Self

Have you ever struggled with knowing who you are deep down inside? What is truly calling you? Finding your deep self or what most know as the ‘soul’ is all about connecting with all the parts of your being that you have kept consciously and unconsciously locked away. Carl Jung referred to this as a human’s ‘shadow.’ By integrating our shadow, we can begin to build a deep sense of Self.

Healing from Heartbreak, Grief, Shame, & Loss

Losing someone you love by way of death or a break-up/separation is one of the most painful parts of the human-experience. We all will experience this at some point in our lives. How do we heal? How do we let go? Where do we look to learn the lessons we need to learn? I can help you process your grief, reframe your shame, and use the loss you are experiencing to enrich and improve your life. There are valuable lessons in the breakdown. Let’s learn them, together.

“Nico’s coaching has been so helpful to me. It has helped me grow as a man and as a partner. Spending hours getting into the depths of my fears and struggles has helped me open doors I never would have thought possible. Anyone on the fence…just give working with Nico a try. I don’t think you’ll regret it.”

— Clint (32)

“There are so many teachable moments in life, and all I could think of in that moment was, "this man has a lot to teach, and there are so many who need to hear what he has to say (and HOW he says it)! For me, in that moment, you expanded my belief in what was possible..”

— Christy (46)

“Dating after heartbreak is already difficult enough. Processing my own mistakes and grief from being unfaithful made it even more painful. Nico spent hours with me. We spoke about everything from my childhood, to my profession, to raising my children, to the relationship I was in that ended. We focused around my healing, my patterns, and my love every step of the way. After months of working with him one on one, I can safely say I’m in a better space. I feel better every day. I still have my tough days, but I know what I what to be doing, how I want to be met, and the partner and parent I want to be. Thank you Nico! You are appreciated.”

— Leah (28)